When I was 27, I broke off my engagement after a 4-year relationship and moved on, because I knew deep down inside, that the relationship just wasn’t right for me. It was the most difficult thing I had ever done – breaking it off with a wonderful man, who I knew I was not in love with. While all my friends were getting married, I had to start over from square one and face the world, single once again. I moved back to my hometown (San Diego) with just a couple of friends left in town, single for the first time in over 4 years, no real career path, and lived with my mom. The whole situation sucked. A lot. It was a very hard transition for me. It felt painful and lonely being on my own again. Within a few months I wanted to find love again, and so I started the search by joining Jdate.com.